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Hello lovebugs okay I have a juicy tangent to bring you along for and I know it’ll be juicy because I haven’t written anything on here in a few weeks and also, because it surrounds me and what I do and the reason I LOVE writing so much and sharing my thoughts and experiences, and perhaps that’ll help those of you looking for me to find me easier. 

Firstly though can we believe it's the end of august I think I’m in shock to be fully dramatic but I'm simultaneously holding onto how grateful I am for summer and that we’re still fully in it AND plus someone today told me that apparently september/october is supposed to be hot hot hot so let’s all pray summer lingers until december really. But whilst we’re soaking up these august evenings and about to wrap up an eclipse season, I’m finding myself extra moody... not in a bad way just very attuned, and in my head actually more than usual and I’m ready to be out of that so if this eclipse is dragging me through my 11th house of community and friends and future with my 5th house being play and creation and romance I meannnnnnnn why not let my visibility be emphasized everywhere. Might as well go on a date honestly. Bahahahaha I don’t really date…. Unless I have a really good reason to and boy oh boy are these standards sky high. Anyway bringing the focus to visibility and creation in my work seems to be my priority and this is inspired by something my dad actually asked me the other day and I genuinely want to shout from the rooftops why I’m so passionate about what I do and how intentionally I carry my work, sometimes I think it’s a little too softly and I can afford to be louder but, baby steps!! 

If you haven’t been following along until now, I'm a coach. A deeply intuitive and intelligent one. I don’t really care much for labels and certifications and all that jazz, although I have one, so I don’t mind saying that therapy, counselling, coaching etc… it all kinda feels like one big thing to me and you just get to find who or what works for you within it. So I’ve taken a page from my mentor auntie witchy fairy godmother who’s a registered trauma informed psychotherapist, who I’ve evidently been doing this work for lifetimes with so she says, and she just calls herself a perspective shifter. Hahahahaha beautifully simple and almost underwhelming. But when she said it I was like oh…..ya.. All I help you do is shift the way that you relate to yourself so that the way you relate to your entire life is completely in your hands. I walk you back home to yourself, help you hear your truth underneath all the layers and narratives and stories that you’ve picked up along the way. And once you let go of whatever no longer serves you, the clarity of who you are is so strong that however you decide to create from there becomes effortless. And if you know me, all I’m ever after is that feeling of effortlessness. Not in a way that you're not putting in any work at all, but when you do it’s so supported and almost thoughtless because there’s no other option than to invest your energy into what excites or inspires you. I’m beyond passionate about this work because I’ve spent so much time seeking that way of living and navigating how to create that for myself, that it feels like an absolute disservice to not share it with you. Doesn’t feel like an option. So it’s really important to me and I want everyone on the planet to live from that state because does that not sound dreamy as hell?!

Right okay so as I’m expanding my practice and growing my clientele I'm always open to ways to network and expand my reach in the most organic way possible, and I continue to gravitate towards simply writing and spilling my thoughts and experiences into my blog, as well as just then having conversations with people I meet daily. Human to human connection will always be my favourite and it's never going away so that's often where I want to focus on. With the odd social media share I suppose when I feel inspired…which is not so much as of late hahahaha whatever. So my dad asked me last week what my elevator pitch is, what do I tell people I do?! And if you asked me this last year I would have clammed up and tried to say something smooth and easy that everyone would understand. But last week all I said was, well it depends who I’m talking to papi!!!!!! Hahahah and being the very intelligent, streamlined and practical kinda guy he is, he was like right okay well I’m asking so tell me! I said okay I’m an intuitive coach, I help people come back home to themselves and their truth. He was like okay say I don't know what that means?! I said well dad if you’re someone genuinely asking me what I do, and you’re curious enough then you’d ask me to elaborate, if you’re not you’d say COOL that's nice!!!! Hahaha because if you’re not looking to shift anything or make your life any sexier, then you won’t be interested in what I do BUT, the curious one would get something like what I said earlier… I help people change the way they relate to themselves so the way they relate to their entire life changes. I focus on subconscious patterning, neurolinguistics & nervous system awareness!!!! And since dad loves to play devils advocate and try and see all sides he said that’s a lot of big words and you could prob dumb it down, and before I got to where I am, that would have made me second guess myself a little…but last week I went well sir, the people interested in this work will probably understand to a degree what I’m saying because they’re open to this and have already started along the journey and are therefore looking for me because I don’t think people find me until their awareness is there of how they’ve been living their life, so they're looking for a shift!!! I’m all for making myself visible but I also don’t need to be trying to make everyone understand what I’m doing because I deeeeeeeply trust that those looking for me will find me. And all I can do is broadcast myself in the way that’s most aligned, as best and sunshiney as I can!!!!! (this is me doing that btw). This is such beautiful deep soul work and I also hold the energy of it being fun and cute… living your life in a way that feels LIGHT and aligned and fun and sexy because sensuality is the most alive expression of creation like come on now. Sure it’s intense to unravel all the ways in which you’ve perhaps lost yourself along the way, taken on more than you needed, or abandoned yourself at the expense of being seen or valued, but the journey back home to yourself is romantic as hell and I have no intention other than to welcome you back to that space where you can go “oh there you are you silly little goose we got separated for a minute there but yay we’re back let’s create”.......you know what I mean?????

So I could try and market myself as minimally as possible and come up with a 1 minute elevator pitch where I tell everyone the same thing about what it is that I do that feels digestible to the general public and could fit on an instagram post and is trendy and catchy and has a hook……..or I could intuitively read and be patient with the space between myself and whoever it is I’m sharing with and let them decide if they want to be curious about it without hijacking their autonomy. Because at the end of the day everything I do is to bring you back to your sense of free will to decide!! And so I’ll just keep expressing in a broad sense through my writing and posting that I'm just a human devoted to making it sexy, and helping you do the same…however that looks and feels for you. And to be honest I genuinely love now when people ask me this stuff, because if you’re reading this dad I know you are always trying to help and refine and put that big ol brain to use, as all of the people that care about me and want to help are, AND I finally remembered that I’m really here to do it a lil differently and while I welcome ideas and what not, I also no longer second guess what aligns and what doesn’t so I'm actually grateful he pressed on that recently so I could remember that. And who knows, maybe my take on this will shift by next week, wouldn’t shock me at all honestly…but for right now all that feels true to me is expressing myself in the most genuine and authentic and effortless way, and letting those who are seeking me find me because I truly believe when you put out whatever it is you want to create, that energy of pure devotion and the desire to serve others will always reach whoever is seeking it!! I couldn’t care an ounce LESS about what’s trending or what goes viral or what the majority of people respond best to, I care about if what I'm expressing feels true and who’s actively on the receiving end of it!

What I will say from what I remember is that you’ll recognize the start of this journey if you feel like there might be something more… that you’re not sure what, but it doesn’t feel like where you’re at is IT… you’re curious to know how you could actually create what it is that’s stuck in your daydreams.. where that voice lives that’s consistently whispering “what if I could just—” before the louder voice tells you all the reasons you couldn’t. Hahahaha you know the ones. Or if you know what you’re after and it’s clear and you have a vision but there’s a big space between it and where you are now, so you could use someone unravelling that space and closing the gap… That’s all the stuff I’m really really really good at helping you with because the semantics and power of the language that we use that I can hear from 2 minutes of you telling me where you’re at is all I need… the energy that I can read and see around you and underneath everything you’re holding is so loud to me I couldn’t ignore it if I tried. It’s taken me a very long time to recognize that being a seer means people will either run the other way because being fully seen feels like a threat to your life, or they’ll lean right in because someone seeing you fully allows you to see yourself and the curious ones want in on that. So I welcome you in if you enter with curiosity because as a skeptic you already don’t really want in and that’s totally okay, I'm not about to force you! But I am really excited for you curious souls to find me.

This felt juicy didn’t it?? I feel like I really poured it out and honestly I feel lighter. Hahahah it’s virgo season, myyyyy season and being in my 5th house is like hello creativity and expression. It’s as if we’re influenced by the cosmos..oooop. I'm also closing out my third decade leading up to my birthday and thatttttt is also wild. Something I don't put a lot of thought or care into but also like wow what a privilege 3 decades is. EEK okay love ya, thanks for being here!!

xx Sarah